Posted by Jeni<3 (Post 293616)

Get this straight....I DO NOT TREAT ADMINS ANY DIFFERENTLY THAN ANY OTHER PLAYER WHO IS MY FRIEND...friends are friends. I have no idea why you all can't get that through your heads. Many staff were my friends long before they were staff, ask them if I changed. Sure I may have asked for a doll or statue but I have never asked for an item from any staff member, ever. Players offer me items all the time, what do I say? Thanks, that is very sweet but unnecessary. Even with Lay, I gave him many supers for his bday that I bought at auctions or traded. People just make assumptions instead of taking the time to know people and facts. That is the saddest part of all of this. Yes, everyone is entitled to their opinion but nobody has the right to judge this way! I ask you if these items were offered to you would you deny them? I think we all know the answer. I really hope you mature soon because all of this pent up anger and hostility is not healthy for anyone.

Posted by Jeni<3 (Post 293623)

Really, you miss my point as well. Since when does being friends with people constitute as sucking up? You are on the outside looking in and assuming I suck up. You also don't give staff the courtesy to believe that they can't see right through people who are being fake to them. I treat all friends as friends, apparently you all don't understand what it is to give people the benefit of the doubt as human beings prior to judging them on their jobs or who they associate with. Personally, I chose to know people as individuals and in turn, I am treated with respect and friendship. You really should try it sometime vs showing your age venting in a forum about what 15 pixelated items in a game? And yeah, I really base and pk (NOT) so remind me exactly what my advantage is? Revolt all you like, it is a shame you have nothing better to do than slander others and find miniscule reasons to complain.


That is the dumbest statement by far...now you can act out because of our history but I will not stoop so low to share all of your indiscretions. My relationship is not era, in this age of technology there is such a thing as long-distance relationships. But you must admit, since you actually did pursue him, Layerd is a pretty adorable panda <3

Posted by Jeni<3 (Post 342659)

You will say that forever and nothing will change your opinion of my staff friendships pre-hire but I will say one last time for you and the entire viewing audience that anyone who has been my actual friend for any length of time knows that I am in general a friendly and social person which materialized into friendship with many people...staff and players alike. When I stumbled upon Era a year and a half ago I had no intentions on still being part of a gaming community for a long period of time. I did not campaign to become staff and in fact, resisted it for a period of time. I am not a gamer in the least and Era is the only game I play at all. I realize from the outside looking in and because so many players are on a mission to be staff they put a deliberate strategy behind being friends with staff. Since I pride myself on being a genuine person that conflicts with my personal beliefs which is also why I feel so compelled to respond to your post. My friends think I am crazy for even caring or giving a second thought to disrespectful posts and opinions but that is not who I am. I actually do care how people view me and hope that one day, should you actual take the time to know me as a person, you will see that a "suck up" or whatever you call it and insinuating that I treat staff differently or better than any other person is not me at all. As staff and as a person, I am far from perfect but I can tell you that I actually care and want to help make the best gaming experience for players. I hope that is apparent in the many hours I devote and the efforts I put forth.