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You're a strong man.

Live a good life friend.

I can't imagine what it's like having such a life-changing disease like that...

My sister is autistic and it really makes me feel sorry for all the mentally and physically sick people out there.

Hopefully somebody comes up with a breakthrough.

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Posted by doodleman171 (Post 464195)

I was saddened when I read both of your stories. People in life can truly be cruel. I believe that the lack of empathy is to blame. With the rise of technology we are faced with new ways to contact people. Instead of calling or speaking in person, some people use instant messaging or texting. This is where we loose the conveying of emotion. Thus damaging our ability of having empathy. Although, this new technology allows us to talk to others in a way where we can truly be ourselves. It also gives us a chance to find people who understand what we are going through when those around us do not.

Even when people were mean and life threw things at you; you did not give up.

Thank you for sharing your stories with us xSupah.

Yes it's true and no problem. They are saddening stories but I still strive.

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Posted by Isaac (Post 464197)

You're a strong man.

Thanks Issac I try. I really do. Sometimes I feel like giving up, but you realize that is not an option.

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Posted by 5hift (Post 464208)

I'm really sorry to hear that. I'll give her all my support and I hope so to man. Diseases and conditions really are heart-breaking.

Wow. A thread merge was not necessary. They are two complete different topics. Way to go..

I really symphasise for you mate you have just got to remember that situations are only damaging depending on how you mentality takes them.this may seem a complicated subject but if you ever master this you will basicaly become invincible!

Bullies Do, People Think.

I think this is a good slogan for anti-bullying.

bro, use linebreaks when you make ridiculously long posts like this or I'll shove you in a locker

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Posted by xSupah* (Post 464172)

Well this is part 2 to my other story but they are not related what soever. My first story is Bullying and can be found here:

http://www.graalians.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23070

This story actually is more of what happen to me back in 2012. Yes, it's a true story and yes It kinda hurts talking about it but sometimes I just like to express what happen to me to others because some can actually relate to what I'm going through.

Well without further ado, here's Part 2:

So I moved down to Georgia in 2011 and was having the time of my life. I mean I was making friends, I was enjoying Graal during the time since it was my first year playing and I could honestly say that I forgot about the bullying. Fast forward to spring of 2012 and I realized I wasn't myself. From spring all the way to fall, I had intense stomach pains and these little things called hemorrhoids. Basically (hope you guys be mature about this) they were these two little things hanging in the anus which makes you have intense pain when passing stools. It was a sign and I regret to this day to keeping it to myself that I had hemorrhoids until a month later where I told my mom. So I had both these problems and went to the doctor countless times just to get medicine and tips. These did not help. I went to NY the summer of 2012 and it was just brutal with all the pain I had. School started in August 2012 and every morning the pain was bad. It then went away but came back during the school day. It was that one day in September that I won't forget anytime soon. Most days I had to pick up my brother from his school across the block. SO that one day I did and as I was walking back home the unexpected happen. I s**ted right there. Not only was my stomach killing me, the hemorrhoids were also causing that extreme pain. So I went to hospital the next day( yes I went to hospital before but the people there said it was just a stomach bug). Lucky, these people this day were smart people. They knew something was wrong with me and they referred me to a gastroenterologist(someone who specializes with the digestive system). I went to my specialized doctor that next Friday since my grandmother who came down from NY just to check on me had to choose the best one. When that Friday came, my specialized doctor told me that I may have Cronh's Disease. I was worried and depressed at the same time. I was hoping for a miracle. To see if I did, he made me go to a children specialized hospital. There I had to drink this laxative that made me pass stools all night. He made me do this to flush my body out for a colonoscopy(test where a camera is inserted in your mouth to check intestine area). The test was done after they made me fall asleep from gas. When it was done, the results was in. I awoke and heard the doctor say, "Gianni(real life name) I'm sorry to say but you have Cronh's Disease". He showed me the pictures of my intestine and they were inflamed. I was so depressed. My family and I were just crying and having tears. I was worried. I never heard of this Cronh's disease before and pretty much in my mind was why me. Why do I deserve this? I had a lot of support during the time. My friends on Graal were there for me and some were even crying. Some said everything will be ok. But how? I been diagnosed with a disease. That wasn't ok to me. So the doctor then told me what it was. Cronh's Disease is a disease that causes intense stomach pain and inflames my small and large intestine as well as my colon. Basically, it causes stomach pain randomly from time to time. During these times, it's called flares-up. When I got out the hospital the 3-4 days after I got diagnosed, I was recovering. I missed a month and few weeks from school. When I got back, everyone asked me where I been and I told them what happen. Some just said oh, some told me that it was really sad news others gave me a hug. But some were harsh. Some who thought I was annoying said I deserve the disease. Like really? That's hard to hear folks. I was like wow. Basically, I missed so much school from my disease. Even now it have random flare ups that make me miss weeks of school. I'm surprised I managed to even pass my classes. Fast forward to now and I can say my disease is under control. I have to take this procedure every 6-8 weeks that is an IV infused with a medicine named Remicade where clears up(not take out completely) the inflammation in my intestines. It sucks considering I have to stay there for hours and by the time I'm done, I sleep for the whole day. So yeah, this disease is incurable. It makes me limit what foods I can eat, makes me lose my appetite for eating, gives me bad stomach pains(sometimes it real bad that I have to go to hospital) and it basically changed my life. The worst fact is that stress plays a huge factor and can even lead to my flares-up and I sadly get stressed a lot. And I know there are far worse diseases out there and I pray and feel sorry for all who been affected by one. Because face it folks, you don't know until it hits you and change your life forever. Cronh's disease seems like a minor thing but its major and can even get to the point where you have to have surgery. From my time where I got diagnosed to now I strive to become stronger and I still fight now. Because for the fact that if you don't fight the disease, your gonna let that disease win. Well thanks for reading. And I'll put some information about the disease down here. Just remember keep fighting and for all who have a disease do not give up hope. Just don't.

Info on Cronh's Disease:
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/e...cle/000249.htm

Heres the new story.

It's awful to hear that these things happen, but I personally believe there's always a greater meaning behind things. How we view that meaning determines everything. Life gives you a blessing, or a lesson. Sometimes a lesson can be even more valuable than you would've thought at the time. The important thing is, like Hadzz said, is to have a superior mentality than those around you. You have to believe in against all odds that change can happen. If you went back say 5 years from now, you would've never been able to convince me that I would be who I am today. Never. Not in a million years. Like you, I had my own bullying issues. It's despicable, today I can't stand to hear or see it for myself. I've been depressed, multiple times. Last summer being the most recent; however, today I believe I have the capability to out power at least 10 people when it comes to enthusiasm and positive thinking. Positive thinking won't solve all your issues, especially the ones in the present, but it's good to have something to look forward to. So you're no longer having to push yourself to get better, rather you have something compelling to pull you towards it. I know for me it may sound easy to say these things, especially since I've never been in your place before or had any experience with that, but I know what it's like to watch a loved one die right in front of your eyes in the most painful way possible. And against all odds, even with less than or 0.3% of white blood cells left, they survived. Knowing that these experiences will build you in some aspect, will make you stronger than you can imagine. Everyday I like to wake up at 4AM, both happy to be given life, and a tad disappointed knowing that I wasted 4 of my valuable 24 hours sleeping instead of living. I can't explain the feeling of joy it brings you knowing there's something to look forward to in life. It's something I hope everyone will get to experience, at least once, just as a reminder that not all hope's lost.

I had huge bullying issues at my old school. My middle school was jus one gigantic drama ticking time bomb. Everyone gossiped plus since it was a small private school everyone knew everything and word got around to the whole 80 middle schoolers within minutes. I mainly was bullied because of my multiple learning/hearing disabilites and that i got bullied to hell about. I had 0 respect at that school since i was a weird kid. No one could socially classify me at that school because, i actualy enjoy CLOTHES shopping for others (im apparently good at it too), i am abnormally good at video games, a state level diver, i wasn't into mainstream crap, i played "weird non mainstream games" (such as graal), i could whoop anyones ass at dodgeball, i am dumb, i enjoyed some animes, i spoke the truth and gave 0 ****s about the consequence, and i liked to mod nerf guns (still do, never too old for nerf guns).

Most of the kids at the school were great pals of mine until 4th grade when some new kids joined the school and i quickly became bros with all of them. I tried to hang out with both but i guess the other pals got jelly and just banished me from their click. They also picked on me a ton for being so damn short, so i was often pushed around a lot. Once 6th grade rolled in things went from bad to auful. All of the girls al the sudden turned really bitchy and completly avoided me, along with everyone else but me and my 5 amigos. Then it was constant gossip about others and people picking on me because i have APD so my hearing is **** so every class, i had to go to the teacher and hand them a small device and a clip on mic. I would then wear a lil earbud so i could hear them better and better understand what they say. I got flamed on for that a lot. Bullies pushed me to the edge of suicide 6 times but i never did it. I never took the pills, or stabbed the knife because in my mind i knew, this is just a tough time in life but grind through it and it will become better. then turned to the 8th grade. At the end of march in 7th grade i finally began to grow and fill out. By 8th grade i went from 4 ft 8in to 5ft 7in. My body then began to bulk up a ton from diving and back in school i could change everything. By 8th grade i then began to retaliate a lot more from bullys crap and eventually beat the hell out of 3 of the 27 bullies. Then theres this dumbass bitch who has been harassing me since the 4th grade, i told her i had enough of her crap and i would beat her up if she continues. Obviously since she was a girl she didnt believe me so then i clocked her in the face and sent her home that day. All of the sudden, once that happened, people relised i was actually a huge threat to the class so they ratted me out. Then all hell broke loose amongst th school as teachers were trying to find out what was wrong with me, even they didnt like me except for a few. The school decided iss for me since i fought them tooth and nail and told them my story and they relised how bad bullying was at the school and that bitch had it comming to her along with the rest. Finnally i thought i was at peace, nope. People became even more angry with me mostly since i ratted all of them out for what they have done to me. The bullying increased then i had to rule with fear as my weapon and it worked damn well. Until of course the dumb kids decided to continue bullying me in groups now so i wouldnt fight them. So i stuck really close to my bros and soon enough the bullying just intensifyed from there as whole clicks that were already devolped started getting into bullying one an other. Im done, i cant talk anymore about this school and its horrid bullying.

You hit a girl?! YOU HIT A GIRL?! You have to be 100x worse than those bullies BECAUSE YOU HIT A FREAKING GIRL.

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Posted by Era News (Post 464600)

You hit a girl?! YOU HIT A GIRL?! You have to be 100x worse than those bullies BECAUSE YOU HIT A FREAKING GIRL.

People who are bullied tend to become bullies themselves. I don't blame them, it's an animal's nature. Dogs who were abused in the kennel turn into vicious dogs themselves. It's 'natural', but inhumane.

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Posted by doodleman171 (Post 464195)

I have a very limited sense of empathy towards people. Some people, but I don't know how to properly express it. But I usually feel nothing if something happens to another person or if I do something to another person.(not if it's on purpose)

I really thank you all. It's just I wish this thread title would take out the bullying. I had a 2nd story I doubt a few saw and I made a whole new thread on it only to be merge with this one. They're two different topics. But for all the support I got for my past, I thank you all. Truly I'm amazed I suffered through a lot and still here breathing today. From being molested to be diagnosed with a disease, I went through a lot. And I fought..And kept fighting. Maybe I can't give up..Maybe I have to keep fighting. Otherwise the past will consume me. But thank you all.

Seems like everyone on graalians has had bullying issues da fuq