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Infernus Lapse 01-16-2013 10:37 PM

Infernus has personal problems? :0
 
Yah, i do. I never ask the internet about this, but its a girl problem. Yeah, ANOTHER girl issues thread. My issue isnt about relationships, its about befriending someone i dont know. I want to befriend this girl, i feel that she likes me as a friend too, but for some reason, i always get this heartache and always wonder if she'll show up somewhere. Its not that "oh thatd be cool", but its that "will she? I kinda hope...". I do have a girlfriend thats not her, and im still faithful to her, but im torn. This is extremely personal, but honestly im not going to hide behind the guise of my friends just to get something answered. Whats going on? Do i like her as a friend still, or have i accidentally gone down that path?

Koolaid 01-16-2013 11:10 PM

go down wat path?

Kiwi 01-16-2013 11:13 PM

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Posted by Koolaid (Post 280839)
go down wat path?

I think he's worried he's gone down the path of "liking" this friend, and he's worried about it because he has a girlfriend and he wants to stay faithful to her.

That's what I got anyway.

I really don't know anything about this stuff, but you could just be misinterpreting it. It's normal to really want to be able to spend time with friends. Maybe she's just a new best friend to you.

But it's really only you who can say what you feel and decide for yourself.

iHot 01-16-2013 11:17 PM

try to contain dem feels

Rexx 01-16-2013 11:20 PM

You are what they would call "smitten" for this other girl.
Who cares about your current girlfriend. Break up with her and go after the other girl.
None of these relationships are serious as I can tell just by judging what you have said in your OP.

Pimpsy G. 01-16-2013 11:22 PM

Listen to what your penus says.

Jester Lapse 01-16-2013 11:27 PM

ask your gf if you can have another gf then date them both and have a love triangle. let them date each other too.

Infernus Lapse 01-16-2013 11:28 PM

Quote:

Posted by Rexx (Post 280846)
You are what they would call "smitten" for this other girl.
Who cares about your current girlfriend. Break up with her and go after the other girl.
None of these relationships are serious as I can tell just by judging what you have said in your OP.

The one im in isnt that serious, but what if i dont get in a relationship with my friend (btw i literally met her three days ago), and im left alone again? Thats my fear, i still want to be able to hang out with her if she rejects me.

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Posted by Jester Lapse (Post 280851)
ask your gf if you can have another gf then date them both and have a love triangle. let them date each other too.

My gf doesnt suport three ways </3

Quote:

Posted by Kiwi (Post 280841)
I think he's worried he's gone down the path of "liking" this friend, and he's worried about it because he has a girlfriend and he wants to stay faithful to her.

That's what I got anyway.

I really don't know anything about this stuff, but you could just be misinterpreting it. It's normal to really want to be able to spend time with friends. Maybe she's just a new best friend to you.

But it's really only you who can say what you feel and decide for yourself.

You got it exactly

Jester Lapse 01-16-2013 11:29 PM

then she isnt a good gf

Rexx 01-16-2013 11:29 PM

Threesome.

nuff sed

Infernus Lapse 01-16-2013 11:33 PM

Da internetz said she only lieks me if she wants to lick mah butthole dam

Rexx 01-16-2013 11:41 PM

Anyways, why are you afraid of being "alone"? Is your girlfriend your only friend?
Do you like always having a girlfriend for the fun of it?
If this other girl does friend zone you the chance of still hanging out with her is low since things will be awkward after the rejection.
And you shouldn't be with your current girlfriend if you're just using her as a fallback -__-

Infernus Lapse 01-17-2013 12:27 AM

My gf isnt a fallback, i actually do like her. And i want to still be able to hang out with my friend. Also, i have more friends han just the two im talking about.

Era News 01-17-2013 01:54 AM

Quote:

Posted by Infernus Lapse (Post 280817)
Yah, i do. I never ask the internet about this, but its a girl problem. Yeah, ANOTHER girl issues thread. My issue isnt about relationships, its about befriending someone i dont know. I want to befriend this girl, i feel that she likes me as a friend too, but for some reason, i always get this heartache and always wonder if she'll show up somewhere. Its not that "oh thatd be cool", but its that "will she? I kinda hope...". I do have a girlfriend thats not her, and im still faithful to her, but im torn. This is extremely personal, but honestly im not going to hide behind the guise of my friends just to get something answered. Whats going on? Do i like her as a friend still, or have i accidentally gone down that path?

Lol I've actually had this experience before I lost them both aha.

MattKan 01-17-2013 02:28 AM

Choosing your girlfriend shouldn't be like choosing a pair of shoes to wear for the day.


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