Relationship status and past, or opinions?
 

Title for reference. Graal relationships/marriages do not count.
:)

I'm single. 18 btw.
Got rejected by two people since my last break up which was back in April.
I had 3 girlfriends in a 3 month period earlier this year which was terrible judgement on my part.
I kinda like someone but I don't feel like I'm ready for the stress of a relationship.


Enough about me what about you people? I'm aware many Graalians are of a younger crowd so maybe you've never had a boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm interested in hearing about your relationships or views on them as well.


[also no sex talk]

Single. 13.

Just broke up with a girl who I had a 7 month relationship with since the end of 7th grade. (I know what you graalians are thinking "Hes to young for relationships.")
but really 8th grade (where i am) is where it starts to kick off. She is now dating the kid I really hate, one of those "lax bro" kids, but she still likes me and she doesn't know how to dump the other kid considering shes done it before after a day. So my love life is really complicated...

Single, 13.

I'm a geek #foreveralone

15, I have had 4 girlfriends in the past. Two I managed to stay with for a year, and the other two I broke up with in a week or two. I have ultimately decided that I don't like being in relationships/don't want to date for awhile.

There's some chicks that dig geeks ;)
pretty good having a couple 1 year relationships

Taken, 17.

Feels nice when I compare it to my previous relationship involving my childhood crush

Yeah, I'm sort of a nerd but my girlfriend doesn't mind.
Some girls are attracted to this one attribute

since before time began, and i now have a cult of lovely young girls who have sacrificed their bodies in exchange for the power of chaos.

sure most demons take souls, but seriously, souls arent really sexy.

It isn't nearly as good after they end. :/

Yeah I was in a relationship for about a year and then another year off and on but its over for good now. I know that feel.

We're trying to be realistic here, not LARP.

Nah, relationships at that age are normal. However you probably are too young for serious relationships, or to think said relationships are going to last. It's when kids(and even teenagers) start flinging around words like 'love' where it gets silly. That's not to say you shouldn't feel bad after break-ups, you will--but to think at the age of 12 that the girl you were seeing was going to last forever is a bit far-fetched. Realize that the relationships you're experiencing now aren't relationships to mold your entire life around and you'll be fine.

dusty and i play draw something every night, does that count as a relationship?

More stable than most marriages.

huh.

15, single.
I haven't had a relationship before. Yeah...poor Psycher's forever alone.

Not even, 15 is still young.

About 18, asexual. Probably will be forever. Hey, super cheap housing! Yay me!

That is one of the reasons I don't plan to get married.

18. Half and Half. Lol, kinda seeing someone, but not serious. Yknow, flirting/dating without the title. Wanna make sure I am steady in school before making that step.

Uhhh I have had about 5-9 love intrests irl, only 2 that I consider a serious relationship as I introduced them to my parents, boght them presents, actually cared about them etc.

I still don't care about relationship sort of things :P. It's funny to watch some of my friend's ones though. It kind of puts me in the position where people tell me stuff, which can be annoying. Handy if I ever end up hating them, I suppose, and want revenge, but I hope that never happens.

13.

This.

Lmao.

I'm 15 and have had a few.

In a 13 month relationship. I don't consider my past ones as serious ones, though and see this as the first one I took very seriously.

12, Got a Girlfriend, its been 8 months and a few days.

You are 12 and have had an 8 month relationship 0.o That is impressive sir.

How about my other one ended over the summer it was a yea and a half.

Do you actually kiss and stuff or do you just hug?
Lol I had a girlfriend in 6th grade that lasted a month and all we did was hug hahaha.

Someone asked me out in 7th grade, but I didn't like her type. I'm bad at saying no, so I just avoided her and she got the message.

what was her type?

umm... we should deff not go into that....:shy:

My stance on relationships is that it is best to wait at a young age to focus more on growth and education and any other interests that you wish to pursue. You're free, enjoy it. Live and love life. For you though, since you are 18 and not so young anymore. Relationships are a well and fundamental way to grow a beneficial respect for another person who also shares the same feelings as you do to them. Now, I cannot say it is love mainly because I myself have never experienced it and I believe there are multiple meanings other than just "love". But what I can say, is once you find whatever feeling or special connection you have between a partner it must be held onto. Taken to full extent, and both parties should be responsible for this. Otherwise, it may lead to a very harmful relationship if one is giving more than the other.

I personally myself haven't dated, and I am not ashamed of it. Given the choice, I still wouldn't because I find myself to be an unfit partner for anyone as of now. I'm too focused on more important things right now and I fear that would negatively impact any relationship. Once I have completed my studies I will then hope to find myself a lover. One that I could have not have had in Middle School or High School because I would've wanted to devote as much time, love and care to as possible and not been able to. So out of respect to those I hold feelings towards, I believe it's best to wait until you're willing to commit to that other person.

Never had one, don't like any. Tbh, I don't like anyone (love, swoon for, etc.)
School > Relationship and I'm not attracted to anyone.

Swoon? Ok what does that mean?

google.com
dictionary.com

I believe it's foolish to get into "relationships" as a teenager. Wait until you're out of high school, at least.

Mmmm, 6th grader sexy time....

Nah, relationships are fundamental part of growing up as long as they know where to draw the lines.

Correction. 7th... although not a huge diff....

Why? School encourages dating somewhat with school dances such as Prom and whatnot. I think dating in your teen years is a good way of understanding who you are, what you like and what you don't like.

I found myself going to my significant other for school/emotion support while dating and she came to me. When done right, dating while being in school can benifit you such as providing you a study partner and someone there to cheer you on and up.

I don't understand why people think there is an "age limit" to start dating. Back in the day you could get married at 15, lol. It's just doing what makes you happy as long as it doesn't negativly effect anyone else.

Looking for a 14 year old fat chick to snuggle with PM ME IF INTERESTED , K thnx bai

does this mean I can snag coco? ;)

Maybe it works for some people, but I've overheard so many kids at my school talking about who's dating who, and breaking up with them the next week, then people crying in class over "boyfriends" that they've been with for a few days. It just seems like no one under the age of 16 or so has the emotional maturity to have a relationship that won't interfere with their education. Again, there are exceptions.

She's nerdy, not geeky. I don't like nerds :(

Yea. I hate people who flirt a lot.

I see what you are saying.. as I can see this in the "popular" people clique. But many people ik in my grade are not actually like that.

It's just growing up. It's okay if you don't think there is any point in being in a relationship at a young age but don't act like its beneath you.


Also let's keep this chat appropriate. Talking about some fantasy raping spree is something you might want to keep to yourself.

^_^

hey, its not really rape, just isolation, removal of variables, and maybe removing her ever knowing it was me....

i mean they could still refuse... allthough, when time stops, and you find yourself in a void of nothingness with a guy hitting on you, there isnt much you can do i suppose.

:'( I like having my fantasy rape spree. And now that I think about it, it is perfectly possible I just need to become a timelord.

Pfft time lords don't have to do that, ask Cat, she knows what those sonic screwdrivers really do ;3

Ehmm, no. The void's closed, remember?