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Infernus Lapse 01-16-2013 11:37 PM

Infernus has personal problems? :0
 
Yah, i do. I never ask the internet about this, but its a girl problem. Yeah, ANOTHER girl issues thread. My issue isnt about relationships, its about befriending someone i dont know. I want to befriend this girl, i feel that she likes me as a friend too, but for some reason, i always get this heartache and always wonder if she'll show up somewhere. Its not that "oh thatd be cool", but its that "will she? I kinda hope...". I do have a girlfriend thats not her, and im still faithful to her, but im torn. This is extremely personal, but honestly im not going to hide behind the guise of my friends just to get something answered. Whats going on? Do i like her as a friend still, or have i accidentally gone down that path?

Koolaid 01-17-2013 12:10 AM

go down wat path?

Kiwi 01-17-2013 12:13 AM

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Posted by Koolaid (Post 280839)
go down wat path?

I think he's worried he's gone down the path of "liking" this friend, and he's worried about it because he has a girlfriend and he wants to stay faithful to her.

That's what I got anyway.

I really don't know anything about this stuff, but you could just be misinterpreting it. It's normal to really want to be able to spend time with friends. Maybe she's just a new best friend to you.

But it's really only you who can say what you feel and decide for yourself.

iHot 01-17-2013 12:17 AM

try to contain dem feels

Rexx 01-17-2013 12:20 AM

You are what they would call "smitten" for this other girl.
Who cares about your current girlfriend. Break up with her and go after the other girl.
None of these relationships are serious as I can tell just by judging what you have said in your OP.

Pimpsy G. 01-17-2013 12:22 AM

Listen to what your penus says.

Jester Lapse 01-17-2013 12:27 AM

ask your gf if you can have another gf then date them both and have a love triangle. let them date each other too.

Infernus Lapse 01-17-2013 12:28 AM

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Posted by Rexx (Post 280846)
You are what they would call "smitten" for this other girl.
Who cares about your current girlfriend. Break up with her and go after the other girl.
None of these relationships are serious as I can tell just by judging what you have said in your OP.

The one im in isnt that serious, but what if i dont get in a relationship with my friend (btw i literally met her three days ago), and im left alone again? Thats my fear, i still want to be able to hang out with her if she rejects me.

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Posted by Jester Lapse (Post 280851)
ask your gf if you can have another gf then date them both and have a love triangle. let them date each other too.

My gf doesnt suport three ways </3

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Posted by Kiwi (Post 280841)
I think he's worried he's gone down the path of "liking" this friend, and he's worried about it because he has a girlfriend and he wants to stay faithful to her.

That's what I got anyway.

I really don't know anything about this stuff, but you could just be misinterpreting it. It's normal to really want to be able to spend time with friends. Maybe she's just a new best friend to you.

But it's really only you who can say what you feel and decide for yourself.

You got it exactly

Jester Lapse 01-17-2013 12:29 AM

then she isnt a good gf

Rexx 01-17-2013 12:29 AM

Threesome.

nuff sed

Infernus Lapse 01-17-2013 12:33 AM

Da internetz said she only lieks me if she wants to lick mah butthole dam

Rexx 01-17-2013 12:41 AM

Anyways, why are you afraid of being "alone"? Is your girlfriend your only friend?
Do you like always having a girlfriend for the fun of it?
If this other girl does friend zone you the chance of still hanging out with her is low since things will be awkward after the rejection.
And you shouldn't be with your current girlfriend if you're just using her as a fallback -__-

Infernus Lapse 01-17-2013 01:27 AM

My gf isnt a fallback, i actually do like her. And i want to still be able to hang out with my friend. Also, i have more friends han just the two im talking about.

Era News 01-17-2013 02:54 AM

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Posted by Infernus Lapse (Post 280817)
Yah, i do. I never ask the internet about this, but its a girl problem. Yeah, ANOTHER girl issues thread. My issue isnt about relationships, its about befriending someone i dont know. I want to befriend this girl, i feel that she likes me as a friend too, but for some reason, i always get this heartache and always wonder if she'll show up somewhere. Its not that "oh thatd be cool", but its that "will she? I kinda hope...". I do have a girlfriend thats not her, and im still faithful to her, but im torn. This is extremely personal, but honestly im not going to hide behind the guise of my friends just to get something answered. Whats going on? Do i like her as a friend still, or have i accidentally gone down that path?

Lol I've actually had this experience before I lost them both aha.

MattKan 01-17-2013 03:28 AM

Choosing your girlfriend shouldn't be like choosing a pair of shoes to wear for the day.

Pazx 01-17-2013 11:15 AM

You are an asshole.

Infernus Lapse 01-17-2013 01:02 PM

-.- sure i am. You realize I've been thinking about what to do for weeks? Im not an asshole, it took me that long to decide, you think im an asshole because i didnt put "after a long time of consideration, i regretfully decided to..." or some crap like that, it did. Im cutting the post short, if you knew me irl, youd know ive been obsessing over it for a week. Im not choosing my gf like a pair of shoes, quite literally i wear my shoes until theyre rotten and broken, almost what i do in relationships. I have a girlfriend who i commit to unless i feel i cant anymore, and thats the case. My gf has also not talked to me in over a week and we ignore each other sometimes just out of lack of things to talk about. Dont call me an asshole, these decisions are hard and the last thing i need to think about is how to word it to an internet game forum.

Latte 01-17-2013 05:21 PM

If she hasn't talked to you in over a week, your girlfriend may be having similar feelings. I'd confront her about the breakup and just be honest about how you feel about the situation. If a spark is rekindled, great. If not, then you'll get to pursue this other girl with no strings attached. It's a win-win scenario

Rexx 01-17-2013 06:43 PM

hit and quit
move on to the next chick

Era News 01-17-2013 06:45 PM

Anyway why are you posting it here, most of these people haven't had a girlfriend.

Pazx 01-17-2013 11:52 PM

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Posted by Rexx (Post 281233)
hit and quit
move on to the next chick

wouldn't he have to actually get some for that?

Infernus Lapse 01-18-2013 12:12 AM

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Posted by Latte (Post 281199)
If she hasn't talked to you in over a week, your girlfriend may be having similar feelings. I'd confront her about the breakup and just be honest about how you feel about the situation. If a spark is rekindled, great. If not, then you'll get to pursue this other girl with no strings attached. It's a win-win scenario

Thank you for actually giving me respectful advice.

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Posted by Rexx (Post 281233)
hit and quit
move on to the next chick

I'm committed, as i stated before she hardly talks to me and i think she may be thinking about it. Stop being ignorant, please. Ive been with her for a year now, and i wouldn't just break up with her for one reason.

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Posted by Pazx (Post 281385)
wouldn't he have to actually get some for that?

-.- why do i even talk to some of you people?

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Posted by Era News (Post 281237)
Anyway why are you posting it here, most of these people haven't had a girlfriend.

I agree. Otherwise their must men pretending to be girls cause theyre creeps.

Now i realize my mistake was even trusting anyone here in the first place -.- im deleting that post so i dont get more crap from it, I worded it wrong.

Rexx 01-18-2013 12:31 AM

>internet
>girlfriend problems

Lol

Rezon 01-18-2013 02:10 AM

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Posted by Rexx (Post 281398)
>internet
>girlfriend problems

Lol

>graalians.com

Rofl

Infernus Lapse 01-18-2013 03:17 AM

If you wanna know how to tell if yr in love with a girl: listen to kingdom hearts or some other classical music and see if you can picture the girl better in ur mind. Works 50% of 5/10 of the time!

Pazx 01-18-2013 05:55 AM

are you trying to turn this thread into a joke now

Era News 01-18-2013 08:52 AM

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Posted by Pazx (Post 281619)
are you trying to turn this thread into a joke now

Since when was it not?

LavaClaw 01-18-2013 09:10 AM

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Posted by Jester Lapse (Post 280851)
ask your gf if you can have another gf then date them both and have a love triangle. let them date each other too.

haha wouldnt that be just great

Infernus Lapse 01-18-2013 06:49 PM

Quote:

Posted by Pazx (Post 281619)
are you trying to turn this thread into a joke now

Well, i have as much advice as i need now. So yeah pretty much

Quote:

Posted by LavaClaw (Post 281713)
haha wouldnt that be just great

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=Pi7gw...%3DPi7gwX7rjOw


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