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Ramaz Adelphos 02-25-2013 01:04 PM

Online dating= Disgusting
 
Stop encouraging it! And stop the online dating.... It is beyond disturbing now and disgusting ....

Crono 02-25-2013 01:11 PM

ramaz will u date me bro? no homo

Admiral 02-25-2013 01:17 PM

Tbh, online dating itself isn't disgusting. It's just the iClassic community being full of minors PMing you if you want n00dz thats a bit off.

Ramaz Adelphos 02-25-2013 01:40 PM

Only for you crono

Ghettoicedtea 02-25-2013 01:56 PM

this is one of the reasons why i avoid classic, i keep on being swamped with PMs saying wanna fk? etc

Fellage 02-25-2013 01:57 PM

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Posted by Reece (Post 303323)
Tbh, online dating itself isn't disgusting. It's just the iClassic community being full of minors PMing you if you want n00dz thats a bit off.

This. There's nothing wrong with online dating, but I think it's a bit inappropriate in games like Graal which are meant for a younger audience.

Zen 02-25-2013 02:39 PM

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Posted by Ghettoicedtea (Post 303335)
this is one of the reasons why i avoid classic, i keep on being swamped with PMs saying wanna fk? etc

You would think era had the same problem..

MrSimons 02-25-2013 03:40 PM

Why do you care, it isn't your business really? And who are you to separate me from my wonderful princess becca?

Aleksandr 02-25-2013 03:47 PM

Looking for hot 14 yr old gf.
Must kno how 2 roleplai
Must has kik
Must b durty
Pm plz

Looking for hot 14 yr old gf.
Must kno how 2 roleplai
Must has kik
Must b durty
Pm plz

Dusty 02-25-2013 03:53 PM

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Posted by Crono (Post 303321)
ramaz will u date me bro? no homo

Dude... :(

Johnaudi 02-25-2013 03:55 PM

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Posted by Dusty (Post 303391)
Dude... :(

It's not happening bro...

Craig 02-25-2013 04:09 PM

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Posted by Johnaudi (Post 303393)
It's not happening bro...

It already did.. x.x

Blueh 02-25-2013 07:58 PM

Online dating can lead to some of the most beautiful and long lasting relationships out there. People who are both committed to one another may feel truly bounded to one another and chances are, they just might be. From a 3rd person standpoint, to me it is not disgusting. Rather, really romantic to see how people so far apart can be so happy with one another. If the relationship is a serious one of course.

However, I think the problem is for you and for most of us here is how people do not treat their relationships with honor and respect for one another. Today you will see how many people would advertise for a relationship in front of Graal city or some populated area. Now this itself is not a problem. People get lonely, so what do they tend to do? They advertise themselves on a website like eHarmony or some other dating website. Is it still gross and just as unacceptable as it was in Graal City? Somewhat, as being it is disturbing to witness a minor advertise him/herself and that there are dangerous risks in having an online relationship. But then again, what is any love without the risk of pain being involved?

So then, if this itself is not wrong, then what is? What separates a serious relationship and a non-serious relationship can be a variety of things. Such as a dare, challenge, lustful desires rather than loving ones. All of those things can be found in a non-serious relationship, and there are probably many more I cannot think of at the time. However what is most common you see on Graal is a false sense of "need".

When you see people advertise themselves, do you see them say "I want a girlfriend" or "I need a girlfriend"? Chances are you've probably heard them say need more than want. Truth be told, you do not need to be in a relationship. You want to be in one. But you've either gone so far desperate or self convinced, you may trick yourself into thinking you need one. When in reality, you don't. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship. But when it becomes an essential, you may have to take a few steps back and rethink your necessities. Much like a drug addict who has become so far addicted they believe they cannot live without it, when they have done just fine beforehand.

So why would little Johnny or Billy think its okay to be in a relationship? Well, simply because they've either been exposed to graphic content and they believe lustful desires is considered love. Or what I personally believe is that because marriage is apart of the game. They feel as if they need (need, not want) to have a spouse in order to "advance" in the game. When again, in (virtual) reality, you don't. Nothing is wrong with having a spouse on the game, so long as both are equally in tune and share a caring respect for one another. Or of course, they both recognize that this is only for amusement rather than them both being attracted to one another. When you have someone who thinks they 'need' a relationship in order to advance in the game mixed in with someone who 'wants' to be in a respectful relationship, problems arise.

TL;DR

Well aren't you a lazy one? Well here it is: There's a difference between wanting a relationship and thinking they "need" one. Online relationships can be very prosperous for the both of them so long as they are serious and respectful for one another. Non-serious relationships occur when people think they 'need' it instead of 'want' it. If for some reason one day you or your future spouse finds out they can no longer reproduce with you, would you still be able to cherish them? Or do you think you really needed it that bad in order to be happy with them?

Furryamigo 02-25-2013 08:11 PM

Blueh the novel writer.

Zen 02-25-2013 10:17 PM

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Posted by Blueh (Post 303496)
Online dating can lead to some of the most beautiful and long lasting relationships out there. People who are both committed to one another may feel truly bounded to one another and chances are, they just might be. From a 3rd person standpoint, to me it is not disgusting. Rather, really romantic to see how people so far apart can be so happy with one another. If the relationship is a serious one of course.

However, I think the problem is for you and for most of us here is how people do not treat their relationships with honor and respect for one another. Today you will see how many people would advertise for a relationship in front of Graal city or some populated area. Now this itself is not a problem. People get lonely, so what do they tend to do? They advertise themselves on a website like eHarmony or some other dating website. Is it still gross and just as unacceptable as it was in Graal City? Somewhat, as being it is disturbing to witness a minor advertise him/herself and that there are dangerous risks in having an online relationship. But then again, what is any love without the risk of pain being involved?

So then, if this itself is not wrong, then what is? What separates a serious relationship and a non-serious relationship can be a variety of things. Such as a dare, challenge, lustful desires rather than loving ones. All of those things can be found in a non-serious relationship, and there are probably many more I cannot think of at the time. However what is most common you see on Graal is a false sense of "need".

When you see people advertise themselves, do you see them say "I want a girlfriend" or "I need a girlfriend"? Chances are you've probably heard them say need more than want. Truth be told, you do not need to be in a relationship. You want to be in one. But you've either gone so far desperate or self convinced, you may trick yourself into thinking you need one. When in reality, you don't. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship. But when it becomes an essential, you may have to take a few steps back and rethink your necessities. Much like a drug addict who has become so far addicted they believe they cannot live without it, when they have done just fine beforehand.

So why would little Johnny or Billy think its okay to be in a relationship? Well, simply because they've either been exposed to graphic content and they believe lustful desires is considered love. Or what I personally believe is that because marriage is apart of the game. They feel as if they need (need, not want) to have a spouse in order to "advance" in the game. When again, in (virtual) reality, you don't. Nothing is wrong with having a spouse on the game, so long as both are equally in tune and share a caring respect for one another. Or of course, they both recognize that this is only for amusement rather than them both being attracted to one another. When you have someone who thinks they 'need' a relationship in order to advance in the game mixed in with someone who 'wants' to be in a respectful relationship, problems arise.

TL;DR

Well aren't you a lazy one? Well here it is: There's a difference between wanting a relationship and thinking they "need" one. Online relationships can be very prosperous for the both of them so long as they are serious and respectful for one another. Non-serious relationships occur when people think they 'need' it instead of 'want' it. If for some reason one day you or your future spouse finds out they can no longer reproduce with you, would you still be able to cherish them? Or do you think you really needed it that bad in order to be happy with them?

Blackpeoplemeet.com

Santa Claus 02-25-2013 11:02 PM

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blueh I didnt even read any of what you said. the TL;DR was to long to read as well.

Blueh 02-25-2013 11:04 PM

*facedesk* v.v

Craftz 02-25-2013 11:46 PM

What every happened to oycsadmas scrub? y u no advertise it anymore :(

MrSimons 02-25-2013 11:50 PM

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Posted by Blueh (Post 303496)
wall of stuffs

Blueh uses wall of text!

The OP fainted.

Sicx 02-25-2013 11:50 PM

That moment when you realize the graalian your dating isn't 16 but 62 and living off the streets getting wifi from McDonalds...

MrSimons 02-25-2013 11:57 PM

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Posted by Sicx (Post 303608)
That moment when you realize the graalian your dating isn't 16 but 62 and living off the streets getting wifi from McDonalds...

I know how you feel dude, that happened to me once as well.

Jester Lapse 02-25-2013 11:59 PM

You people have obviously never heard about skype.

Sup3rn00b 02-26-2013 12:03 AM

Online dating itself isnt disgusting, but if you dont try to keep up with your partner through skype or whatever, it can turn out pretty badly.

Fireenn 02-26-2013 02:35 AM

I have to agree with furry
Blueh, you should become a novelist. Took one good look at it and was like oh well skip this post.

twilit 02-26-2013 04:10 AM

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Posted by Santa Claus (Post 303569)
blueh I didnt even read any of what you said. the TL;DR was to long to read as well.

^same

sorry blueh, i honestly appreciate your novelettes, but i find myself reading less than half your posts x.x x3 <3

haruka 02-26-2013 04:15 AM

****** ahoy!

Ryan 02-26-2013 04:33 AM

Sir im sowwy but we hav to brake up coz its dizgustin

Blueh 02-26-2013 08:18 PM

*sigh* v.v

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...rm=rage%20quit

Kiwi 02-26-2013 08:57 PM

Proper online dating itself isn't disgusting. It's just the eight year olds "sharing themselves" to strangers that's bad.

Jenny 02-26-2013 09:22 PM

I mean, I wouldn't call online dating "disgusting". The people who pm you asking to "fk" kay, that's unnecessary and disgusting, but also easily ignored and avoidable if you simply change your settings so that only friends can pm you. Some people truly come to love someone they meet online and it becomes something serious (like a long lasting relationship) I've had my share of both online and rl relationships and tbh I feel like there are good things and bad things about both- for example, online dating I feel like I connect more emotionally with the person, seeing as how they can't really have that "physical" part, yeah you may do that whole sexting thing but that depends on the couple and anyway, that's nothing compared to actually being by that person. At first, when I started playing virtual world type games I thought it was annoying and just stupid and a waste of time, but in all honestly it really does depend on the couple and their intentions. If they're just tryna get with someone to fk or whatever, than yeah, you can say that's disgusting, but if they started out as friends and really came to love each other and have been together for years even, who are we to judge? It's just like any other relationship only you have to have loads more trust.

PennyShine 02-26-2013 11:31 PM

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Posted by Blueh (Post 303496)
Online dating can lead to some of the most beautiful and long lasting relationships out there. People who are both committed to one another may feel truly bounded to one another and chances are, they just might be. From a 3rd person standpoint, to me it is not disgusting. Rather, really romantic to see how people so far apart can be so happy with one another. If the relationship is a serious one of course.

However, I think the problem is for you and for most of us here is how people do not treat their relationships with honor and respect for one another. Today you will see how many people would advertise for a relationship in front of Graal city or some populated area. Now this itself is not a problem. People get lonely, so what do they tend to do? They advertise themselves on a website like eHarmony or some other dating website. Is it still gross and just as unacceptable as it was in Graal City? Somewhat, as being it is disturbing to witness a minor advertise him/herself and that there are dangerous risks in having an online relationship. But then again, what is any love without the risk of pain being involved?

So then, if this itself is not wrong, then what is? What separates a serious relationship and a non-serious relationship can be a variety of things. Such as a dare, challenge, lustful desires rather than loving ones. All of those things can be found in a non-serious relationship, and there are probably many more I cannot think of at the time. However what is most common you see on Graal is a false sense of "need".

When you see people advertise themselves, do you see them say "I want a girlfriend" or "I need a girlfriend"? Chances are you've probably heard them say need more than want. Truth be told, you do not need to be in a relationship. You want to be in one. But you've either gone so far desperate or self convinced, you may trick yourself into thinking you need one. When in reality, you don't. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship. But when it becomes an essential, you may have to take a few steps back and rethink your necessities. Much like a drug addict who has become so far addicted they believe they cannot live without it, when they have done just fine beforehand.

So why would little Johnny or Billy think its okay to be in a relationship? Well, simply because they've either been exposed to graphic content and they believe lustful desires is considered love. Or what I personally believe is that because marriage is apart of the game. They feel as if they need (need, not want) to have a spouse in order to "advance" in the game. When again, in (virtual) reality, you don't. Nothing is wrong with having a spouse on the game, so long as both are equally in tune and share a caring respect for one another. Or of course, they both recognize that this is only for amusement rather than them both being attracted to one another. When you have someone who thinks they 'need' a relationship in order to advance in the game mixed in with someone who 'wants' to be in a respectful relationship, problems arise.

TL;DR

Well aren't you a lazy one? Well here it is: There's a difference between wanting a relationship and thinking they "need" one. Online relationships can be very prosperous for the both of them so long as they are serious and respectful for one another. Non-serious relationships occur when people think they 'need' it instead of 'want' it. If for some reason one day you or your future spouse finds out they can no longer reproduce with you, would you still be able to cherish them? Or do you think you really needed it that bad in order to be happy with them?

Woah Blueh. Is there a sequel?

Blueh 02-26-2013 11:37 PM

No, but I'm going to make it a movie. BECAUSE PEOPLE DON'T READ ANYMORE X.X

Infernus Lapse 02-26-2013 11:40 PM

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Posted by Ramaz Adelphos (Post 303320)
Stop encouraging it! And stop the online dating.... It is beyond disturbing now and disgusting ....

You JUST realized this?! Online dating has been present since a bit after the internet went up as a personal user interface.

meganey98 02-27-2013 01:56 AM

Well, dating isn't bad or anything.

Revo* 02-27-2013 02:41 AM

Graal is the ONLY MMO that has a disturbing community filled with sick online daters maybe lack of content should be the problem? I mean they hav absolutely no
Other chose as if the game wants u to! My opinion

These are kids btw and all they want is virtual sex or gralats seriosuly this isn't eharmony no such thing as a beautiful relationship in graal just not possible!!!

iHot 02-27-2013 02:43 AM

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Posted by Revo* (Post 304230)
Graal is the ONLY MMO that has a disturbing community filled with sick online daters maybe lack of content should be the problem? I mean they hav absolutely no
Other chose as if the game wants u to! My opinion

This is one of the most ignorant posts on this website. I hope you realize that all MMO's are going to have a variety of people. Don't go saying Classic has no content either because even though we've only been getting hats I'm sure the adiams in the sky will have something for us soon.

Blueh 02-27-2013 02:51 AM

Quote:

Posted by Revo* (Post 304230)
Graal is the ONLY MMO that has a disturbing community filled with sick online daters maybe lack of content should be the problem? I mean they hav absolutely no
Other chose as if the game wants u to! My opinion

These are kids btw and all they want is virtual sex or gralats seriosuly this isn't eharmony no such thing as a beautiful relationship in graal just not possible!!!

Read my novel on the first page of the thread.

twilit 02-27-2013 03:23 AM

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Posted by Blueh (Post 304123)
No, but I'm going to make it a movie. BECAUSE PEOPLE DON'T READ ANYMORE X.X

:0 Revolutionary idea. If you put your posts into youtube vids, Id watch them all <3

MrSimons 02-27-2013 03:45 AM

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Posted by Revo* (Post 304230)
Graal is the ONLY MMO that has a disturbing community filled with sick online daters


Thallen 02-27-2013 08:53 AM

ROFL @ entire thread

Revo* 02-27-2013 08:11 PM

I Blane the community

Zen 02-27-2013 11:13 PM

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Posted by Revo* (Post 304605)
I Blane the community

"I blame you."
With love,
Grammar Nazi

MrSimons 02-27-2013 11:17 PM

The amount of ignorance in this thread is unnerving.

HON3Y BADG3R 02-27-2013 11:53 PM

I'd like to see how many people actually met up over graal.. Probably all got killed or molested.

But anyone wanna meet up on farmersonly.com?

PennyShine 02-27-2013 11:58 PM

Yeah. Most of the people on Graal that marry just ask anyone they see to marry them. Are you serious? I've known you for 14 seconds and you wanna marry me?

What's worse is when you see that it's a player with less than 20 minutes doing it. I mean, if you just got Graal and getting married to a stranger is your first priority? Oook then...

GOAT 02-28-2013 01:05 AM

only cool people cyber date so im guessing every poster in graalians has a graal gf/bf


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