Real Life Problem. Can Anyone Help?
 

Heres what happened: Normal day at school. Im at home, and i decide to text my friend. He responds with "I dont care" i ask why, and he said hes sad and mad. I ask him why, and he says its personal and refuses to tell me, and says its between him and a girl at school. I say ok, and text the girl and ask her why my friends so mad. She responds with "Go away you jerk" Then i knew something was up. I tried convincing him to tell me but no luck. He NEVER holds things from me and i do the same. Anyone know how to convince him to tell me whats up?

Tell him that he's never been like this, and that you want to help him. Try it?!

He flipped out:/

Give them their personal space and just let them be for a while.

Yeah, let them calm down, they will forget it over time. Time heals.

Start sexting with him.

Maybe stop butting into his sex life!!!

This concerns me. The girl who was texting him admitted it was about me.

Wow now the forums are also for Real life problems? Maybe we should get unixmad here for his bread problem.

Anyway just stay back and let him rest.

This is in the off topic forums stupid :p

Anyway in a graal forum :P I knew that this is in off topic area.

Did u do anything bad to him lately?

I figured out what it was about. She randomly hates me and thinks i'm a douchebag now:(

Tell her you play graal, chicks dig that ,It'll patch things up ;)

Being serious perhaps just stay out of her way for a bit and try have her forget you so perhaps you can have a chance it making her think you're not a douchebag :0

she wants you

Lolz!

^Real life experience!

Try staying away from her, and ask her friends about the problem.

/ignore her.

/ragequit lol

Embrace it and start popping your collars.

Wait wait, so you had to text her and get a response just to confirm that "something was up"? Damn son them detective skills.

Chillax. If you don't know how to help, don't risk making the situation worse.

Well, you can't ask her. Does the boy have siblings?

Maybe someone told the kid that you said something mean about him so he started hating you. That's how my older bro lost one of his really good friends. Someone told his friend that my older bro said something mean about him.

Hmm well for starters i wouldnt ask him to explain via text haha, ask him to hangout or somthing it's easier to talk to people in person :P

Soultion:


Mind your own ****ing business.

All I can say is:
You know you're desperate when you're asking for real-life advice on a gaming forum.

You are polite.

Just sayin' :giggle:

ok then :/

Honestly, I'd just give it time.
My friends used to get me into all sorts of stupid drama, and I often ended up trying to juggle everyone else's problems while they got mad because i couldn't tend to their every need and yelled at me consistently.
You can imagine I got fed up with it.
Now I usually sit things out and follow the policy of, "It's your problem, you can fix it."

I hear showing girls your ***** fixes things

Unless your 12

Stop it. Just stop. If you want to fix the problem, then go to him. Look him in the eye. Tell him straight forward.