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Wolfie 12-23-2015 10:54 AM

I Need Help Approaching a Girl
 
There's this girl I really like and would love it if we can start out as friends. In my eyes, she's really pretty and attractive. However, the problem is I don't have any classes with her. I only know her because she was in one of my class back in middle school. She's always surrounded by friends so this makes it even more onerous to approach her.

I don't have her for any class, and she is always surrounded by friends. Is there any way to create a conversation between me and her without making it seems awkward? I want to approach her in a well-manner and natural way, however her friends are in the way...

PS: I'm a fairly decent looking guy. A little chubby, and weird. I also have problems with looking at people straight in their face...

Can someone provide me some good advice please?

Elk 12-23-2015 11:23 AM

So you basically like and would love her even though you dont really know her but only find her pretty and very attractive...

Mio 12-23-2015 11:26 AM

Boys... seriously for the looks?

Jent 12-23-2015 11:34 AM

Its not always about what's inside that matters, sometimes good looks matter.

Albie 12-23-2015 11:38 AM

I was in a situation like this. I didn't know a girl but I really wanted to, we ended up dating.

As weird as it sounds, find out where she usually hangs out and sit around that area. Odds are she and her friends will come and sit near you giving you a free buy into their conversation. Don't anticipate them though, don't look excited when she or her friendship group come. Just slideeee into the conversation.

Do this for a few days then ask for her number or snapchat or something. This will help you get to know each other better and let you become friends (if you're not awkward).
And then it won't be obnoxious for you to walk up to her and start talking as if you were friends.

That's what I did anyway. It worked lol

Sardon 12-23-2015 03:08 PM

To aproach a girl one must be slow and sneaky.
A wild girl can easily spot an aproaching male so you should hide using the nearest object such as a tree or a building.
Capturing one would not be that easy either but I reccomend you purchase a C8 type net its efficent.

iHot 12-23-2015 03:13 PM

Quote:

Posted by Albie (Post 648687)
I was in a situation like this. I didn't know a girl but I really wanted to, we ended up dating.

As weird as it sounds, find out where she usually hangs out and sit around that area. Odds are she and her friends will come and sit near you giving you a free buy into their conversation. Don't anticipate them though, don't look excited when she or her friendship group come. Just slideeee into the conversation.

Do this for a few days then ask for her number or snapchat or something. This will help you get to know each other better and let you become friends (if you're not awkward).
And then it won't be obnoxious for you to walk up to her and start talking as if you were friends.

That's what I did anyway. It worked lol

Confidence is more attractive than your actual looks so take his advice ^^and approach her with confidence and you'll make a good lasting impression

Weeno 12-23-2015 03:22 PM

be confident if you want to start out as friends at least act normal and get your voice straight. Think in your mind that if she would think you as a friend then you should act like an actual friend and not some dude who likes her

Albie 12-23-2015 05:46 PM

dont be 2 cocky tho

Pr0m4N V.14 12-23-2015 05:54 PM

True Awnser:

DONT.

Distorted_P2P 12-23-2015 05:56 PM

Confidence is key.

MrSimons 12-23-2015 06:33 PM

Quote:

Posted by Mio (Post 648683)
Boys... seriously for the looks?

Get off it, he is asking how he can become friends with someone. So he is obviously interested in who she is too.

Latte 12-23-2015 06:55 PM

I would take Albie's advice, and I would try to make eye contact with her. Just keep your head up, you don't need to look straight into her eyes all the time. But don't put your head down when you talk. Personally, it's hard for me to understand someone if they aren't making some eye contact with me-- because they're talking somewhere else, or because I don't know what they're feeling. Making eye contact allows more comfort, transparency, and trust in the conversation.

That being said, it's okay if you're a little nervous. Just accept it, and allow the conversation to put you at ease.

Skyzer 12-23-2015 07:01 PM

You cannot force someone to like you.

Areo 12-23-2015 07:08 PM

Albie's idea was good. You can also try seeing if you are in any of the classes with her friends. If you can become friends with one of her friends she may "invite" you into the group. Or at least make it not awkward to join it yourself.

There sadly isn't a magic spell called "friendus-awayus!"


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