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01-16-2014
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Lie, never to rise.
Join Date: Oct 2012
Posts: 1,716
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Sucks man, I really can't say much since I've never really experienced being bullied, I mean Im pretty tall where I live and no one really ****s with that guy thats a foot taller than them. All I can suggest is not spending too much time looking for friends, If you've had ****ty experiences with people and you aren't comfortable yet being around others dont force yourself into one of those situations (this can go for anything really), just stay chill and friends will find you.
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Thanks Simons.. I try not too..But it sucks having only a few ones(in RL and on here).
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I used to be highly antisocial during most of my time in middle school. In 8th grade I had an image change, so that really helped and harmed my self esteem in different areas. It helped by making me much more social and for the most part thought positive of myself for the first time, and at the same time I was faced with the issue of conformity. As a result, I still do this today with my own touch, is I would observe the way people sit in their seats. Then I would mimic them, so my posture matches their own. Nowadays, I do the same thing, but I look around the room to see who carries themselves out well and I...challenge them, in lack of a better words lol.
But enough about me, that probably wouldn't help you with social skills all that much. But it may improve your confidence. The secret to long lasting conversations and friendships with others can be found in a quote by the Roman poet, Publius Syrus: "We are interested in others, when they are interested in us." Talk about what interests the other person (theirself), and they'll go on for ages.
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True Blueh true...and maybe I should try as I need a confidence booster and to improve my self-esteem.
I was waiting for the part where you kicked their asses
But in a way you did. By not giving up on life as many others do. In a few years you'll be ****ting on their faces I can assure you *thumbs up*
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I tried Hot honestly did..But you see I'm a skinny dude and I hit so weak I was like a Graalian hitting another in a Graal Server...If you don't get it lol, they deal 1 hp which is low damage just like my RL punches...But thanks, everyone said I'm a survivor and I survived through all of this for so long..And that in the long run, I'll be the one in a higher business while they be on the streets or working at McDonalds...but idk about that...
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I just feel so sorry, and sad for you..
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Sigh...It's ok...Past is the past...but it's full of horrible memories...And thats why I posted the Social Thread in Zone section cause I was trying to meet new people but I decided to post the full story here...
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