Era and Classic are practically the same IMO (aside from the obvious genre difference)
Both servers will always have a group of people who want to be #1 in something, and a group of people who act immature and in all honesty if you're constantly complaining about how that is all you see, then you are playing the game wrong (wise words of Aaron , can't quote at the moment sorry pal)
The point of these games is to log on and be able to have fun doing stuff with your friends, when I use to play I never had any experience dealing with babies/try hards, why? Because I was always with my friends playing how I wanted too which didn't involve crying over the stuff we did not like.
This applies to era when I use to play, I never understood why people complained about the era community being so aggressive because I never once received hateful PM's or saw immature things happen, why? Because I played it with my friends and we did what we enjoyed and didn't have to deal with this stuff.
If you don't like the babies/try hards don't hang around them it's simple.