Posted by The Doctor

Fysez, I have some extra information regarding the relationship problem. When we broke up, she initially told me that something happened and she can only find love in her family at the current time. I felt like I needed to know what happened, so I asked her best friend. He was reluctant at first, but then he said that she was selfish, and told me that she came out pansexual. It was until later that I figured out this was not the true cause of the relationship (pansexuals like men and women, and I'm a guy, so that's not a real reason). She figured out her best friend told me, and of course got a bit angry with him and I. That's why he ended his friendship with her. Later on, her and I got closer as friends and soon became best friends. It is then when she told me that she thought I didn't love her (because of my reluctancy to hug or kiss). I was happy with this new information. But it was still bugging me. Her ex-best friend contacted me on his cell phone and told me this was not the case, and the breakup was because she was not having fun. I honestly don't know how to feel as her third wheel when she broke up because she didn't have fun, while expecting me to be happy as a wingman.

Talon, I was thinking this, but I don't want to get rid of a really good friend. I will wait a few months and reevaluate my feelings for her.

Kendama, I'm not looking for another relationship with her, but I'll (maybe) take your advise for other women I fall for. I'm looking to go slowly in a relationship, so maybe this is not ideal. Thanks, though.