No I think it is digusting as well. If we are to aim to better society we must first allow people to feel okay stating statements like this as well. The goal of accepting gays into society is not to try to make everyone agree/understand what it is like to be gay, but instead to tolerate it by a mindset of "we are all free to make our own choices".

I think gay thoughts are gross and degrading of a man, but I also want them to be able to make their own choices are have fair equality in the terms of the law and social status.

Getting back to the topic at hand, I truly do dislike people using these gay slurs as insults. It is childish, but more so it is just unnecessary. If you hang around people who use these words on a frequent basis I strongly urge you to reconsider what friends you are hanging out with.