Posted by Latte

I'm saying it's something that a person can't decide. Your examples are about people exploring their sexuality. But your sexuality is something that feels "just right" to you-- the end result of the exploration.

You're arguing that it's the exploration that causes people to decide whether or not they're gay-- I'm saying its the exploration that decides what feels "right" and what feels "not right" to them, determining their orientation at the end. And if homosexuality were more accepted and honestly talked about, people would be able to determine sooner in their lives what orientation they are.