Why not both?

No sense in asking us to tell you how to live your life, half of the people who answer will be trolling and the other half will probably think they are helping but really there is nothing we can say that will help you, it's all up to you.

Growing up playing Graal pretty much all my friends are from it and I don't care for real social interaction because at the end of the day it does not matter where or how you know someone and you should never feel like you have to befriend people near you over Graal people, they are both real life friends.

This is pretty much the most accurate advice you could hear