when i got really into sparring my goals were:

win a gst (got picked up by US when i was still on my ipod2g in SiB and this was really easy, don't care about gst at all anymore, it gets boring after you win first place and second place 4 times).

beat eddy to 30k wins (did this, he never even hit 30k wins and got banned and lost his account).

become one of the best sparrers in the game (became THE best sparrer in the game and it sucked).

now i have no win goals at all because sparring got boring for me, the only thing i really strive for when playing graal is:

have fun (i manage to do this occasionally by talking to my friends and "trolling" innocent people who are obsessed with graal).

eventually:

quit graal without feeling like i have to come back because my friends miss me. i will probably do this when i'm fully enjoying my life in college and have eliminated all boring timeslots in my life.