Let me, as usual, simply be the bearer of truth; make of it what you will.

I think why some are saying they will not trust him now is because lying about being a girl once or twice is not a big deal so long as you learn a lesson; but to change the pitch of your voice, use your sister's photo, then nonchalantly admit to it without acknowledging the level of trust that was breached as, "I program well. I'm a dude. I have a boyfriend. We're cute, not flamboyant, it's pretty awesome" … Doesn't acknowledge what was done. It's the trust in people's heart & mind about another person's credibility that is broken from a deliberate lie, regardless of how "white" it is.