Posted by Bryan*

Let me get this girl a boquet of flowers or compliment her since the males that want to be with her wouldn't want me to do since it makes the girl lose interest in them. The girl probably hates flowers since she only gets them on certain events or holidays. Eventually she will like the flowers because I'm expressing how I feel about her.

Here's an example. You want the negative one that's clouding your judgment?

Edit: Being extreme isn't too bad when it doesn't cause harm. Respect and know your limitations, she will provide them but you can surprise her as well.