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It really isn't fair if they don't have a choice.
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They do have a choice - just don't have sex!
Obviously they will still have sex since women are human and have desires, but if a women is certain that having a child will ruin her life then maybe she just shouldn't risk it in the first place.
It's the same reason that people say teenagers should not be having sex since if they get pregnant or get somebody else pregnant their lives can go down the drain quickly.