my friend and his girl problems

Godoco · 01-15-2013

Aight, so I have this friend. Hes been dating a girl on and off for the past 9 months. Hes 15. But every time, a month after they get back together, she says she likes someone else, they break up and get together like a month later. Its happened 4 times already. He really likes her, shes a childhood friend, he just doesn't know what to do, he always comes to me in tears. Its the 5th time no, he just came to me. Should he stay with this bish? I say no, but he really loves her. i have no idea what to tell him. Could someone experienced with girls help? Thanks

LavaClaw · 01-15-2013

>experience with girls
>this forum
Ha.

I think it's best for him to talk to her about it. Plus, they're 15, they are immature as far as relationships are going to go.

GOAT · 01-15-2013

Posted by Godoco

Could someone experienced with girls help? Thanks

you won’t find anyone that fits that description on this site besides me of course and my advice is to harsh for this site

crap claw beat me to it

Ignatius · 01-15-2013

dump. her.

Jeni<3 · 01-15-2013

Posted by LavaClaw

>experience with girls
>this forum
Ha.

I think it's best for him to talk to her about it. Plus, they're 15, they are immature as far as relationships are going to go.

Rofl <3

*Rose · 01-15-2013

Well, if she "likes someone else" shouldn't your friend know that if they date again she's going to like him and the other dude.

Ignatius · 01-15-2013

tats or gtfo

Kavan · 01-15-2013

Since when do people this age know what love is? In my opinion, anyone in "love" at that age is just following a trend set by peers/previous generations or is used to gain popularity... Just sayin'.
Why would someone who still likes to climb trees want to have a serious relationship and want to settle down with their lover? I mean really, they still market nappies in supermarkets for that 15 year old age group - no joke. It says a lot really.

Not being offensive to anyone who feels they are, I just don't believe in it and find it difficult to comprehend. For those that disagree, please explain... (Rant over)

But yeah, back on topic, he should probably just forget about her if this just keeps happening because it really seems like it's not working out.

Rexx · 01-15-2013

Your "friend"
Right...lol

Anyways, I have some experience with girls. I as a male, can't tell you the mysterious ways of their thinking or reasoning. But I am 19 years old and have been in a couple few relationships in my day.

I've never been in a relationship with a childhood friend (all mine are males) but maybe he really does think he loves this girl due to the bond they have built over their years growing up together.
I can 100% guarantee the girl doesn't love him though. She keeps leaving him for other guys and comes crawling back to him (your friend)
My advice is tell your friend to man up and stop being a little bitch. He sounds beta as ****. He's going to let this girl keep dumping him for other guys and STILL take her back every time? She's probably a ***** and having sex with these other guys. And to top it off he comes CRYING to you?
This friend of yours needs to grow some balls and man up.
Tell him to stop putting up with her **** and that he doesn't really love her.

Engel · 01-15-2013

Posted by Kavan

Since when do people this age know what love is? In my opinion, anyone in "love" at that age is just following a trend set by peers/previous generations or is used to gain popularity... Just sayin'.
Why would someone who still likes to climb trees want to have a serious relationship and want to settle down with their lover? I mean really, they still market nappies in supermarkets for that 15 year old age group - no joke. It says a lot really.

Not being offensive to anyone who feels they are, I just don't believe in it and find it difficult to comprehend. For those that disagree, please explain... (Rant over)

But yeah, back on topic, he should probably just forget about her if this just keeps happening because it really seems like it's not working out.

Since when do you decide for him if he really loves her or not....? :p

And yeaaah, that girl does sound like she's not ready for a relationship- if she keeps breaking up with him I suggest you tell him he has a serious talk with her what this all is about, and if this doesn't work for him then he should let her go, better do that than that she leaves him every month ;p.

Posted by Rexx

Your "friend"
Right...lol

Haha thought the same thing xD

GOAT · 01-15-2013

Posted by Kavan

Just sayin'.Why would someone who still likes to climb trees want to have a serious relationship and want to settle down with their lover?

BOON he said people with experience
Only because someone is in love at that age doesn’t mean they’re thinking of “settling down” with someone for the rest of their lives. All that means is they’re in love at that moment. Especially when its the famous first love. That’s why they call it teenage love. You will understand when you get a gf dude.

Latte · 01-15-2013

Unfortunately, your friend is probably the 'back-up boyfriend'. She probably doesn't actually like him, but feels as though she always needs to be in a relationship, so when a relationship is over that she actually liked, she goes back with him just to have someone. I knew one girl like this, and her situation got pretty bad.. There's not a lot of hope for people like this; the best thing is to make the choice to respect yourself, and leave her. She has to learn on her own.

Kavan · 01-15-2013

Posted by GOAT

You will understand when you get a gf dude.

No time for it. Education eats up all my spare time. :L

Plus, why would you love someone if you don't want to spend the rest of your life with them? It's lies then...

GOAT · 01-15-2013

Posted by Kavan

No time for it. Education eats up all my spare time. :L

Crap why I didn’t think of that. Get an education, get rich, and let my money get me a super model.

Posted by Kavan

Plus, why would you love someone if you don't want to spend the rest of your life with them? It's lies then...

Lol cause you can’t control what your heart wants 0o the heart wants what it wants you have no control over it

Kavan · 01-15-2013

Posted by GOAT

Lol cause you can’t control what your heart wants 0o the heart wants what it wants you have no control over it

The heart is a lump of muscle that pumps blood. Yes, I can really forsee this lump of meat longing for a loving relationship.

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Godoco Coder Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 901	my friend and his girl problems Aight, so I have this friend. Hes been dating a girl on and off for the past 9 months. Hes 15. But every time, a month after they get back together, she says she likes someone else, they break up and get together like a month later. Its happened 4 times already. He really likes her, shes a childhood friend, he just doesn't know what to do, he always comes to me in tears. Its the 5th time no, he just came to me. Should he stay with this bish? I say no, but he really loves her. i have no idea what to tell him. Could someone experienced with girls help? Thanks

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LavaClaw amidoinitrite? Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Gold Coast, Australia Posts: 1,484	>experience with girls >this forum Ha. I think it's best for him to talk to her about it. Plus, they're 15, they are immature as far as relationships are going to go.

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Ignatius The Psychonaut Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Middle o' space Posts: 1,527	dump. her.

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*Rose hai Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Loser Posts: 830	Well, if she "likes someone else" shouldn't your friend know that if they date again she's going to like him and the other dude.

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Kavan I'm watching... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Northern Ireland, UK Posts: 644	Since when do people this age know what love is? In my opinion, anyone in "love" at that age is just following a trend set by peers/previous generations or is used to gain popularity... Just sayin'. Why would someone who still likes to climb trees want to have a serious relationship and want to settle down with their lover? I mean really, they still market nappies in supermarkets for that 15 year old age group - no joke. It says a lot really. Not being offensive to anyone who feels they are, I just don't believe in it and find it difficult to comprehend. For those that disagree, please explain... (Rant over) But yeah, back on topic, he should probably just forget about her if this just keeps happening because it really seems like it's not working out.

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Rexx User Registered Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 4,626	Your "friend" Right...lol Anyways, I have some experience with girls. I as a male, can't tell you the mysterious ways of their thinking or reasoning. But I am 19 years old and have been in a couple few relationships in my day. I've never been in a relationship with a childhood friend (all mine are males) but maybe he really does think he loves this girl due to the bond they have built over their years growing up together. I can 100% guarantee the girl doesn't love him though. She keeps leaving him for other guys and comes crawling back to him (your friend) My advice is tell your friend to man up and stop being a little bitch. He sounds beta as **. He's going to let this girl keep dumping him for other guys and STILL take her back every time? She's probably a * and having sex with these other guys. And to top it off he comes CRYING to you? This friend of yours needs to grow some balls and man up. Tell him to stop putting up with her ** and that he doesn't really love her.

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Latte what the heil Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: powerrangerville Posts: 1,351	Unfortunately, your friend is probably the 'back-up boyfriend'. She probably doesn't actually like him, but feels as though she always needs to be in a relationship, so when a relationship is over that she actually liked, she goes back with him just to have someone. I knew one girl like this, and her situation got pretty bad.. There's not a lot of hope for people like this; the best thing is to make the choice to respect yourself, and leave her. She has to learn on her own.