DUDE DON'T GET MARRIED IT'S THE WORST THING TO HAPPEN TO YOU THE ONLY GOOD THING ABOUT IT IS SUMMONING. The girls cheat on you and ironically, if you get married, you actually spend less time together (don't believe me? Trust me, it'll happen.). Keep dating and try to keep her in reach like add her as a friend to see where she is on the map, and stay in the same guild. And if the marriage doesn't work out, you have to waste, 1000 gralets to get divorced.