saying a guy is handsome or hot does not make you gay at all. It's just how women call each other pretty. If you're confident enough with your sexuality, then you seriously wouldnt care. For example i posted "jacob is hawt" and no one yet has called me a homo cuz I'm sure it's a well known fact i am straight. If you even consider yourself attractive does that make you gay? Cuz tecnically youre saying a guy is attractive, unless you hate yourself (which is sad :[ ). I guess what I am trying to say is that everyone has seen a guy who they would consider handsom. It's just a mature thing to admit it. just my thoughts on the difference between being gay and honest.