I just found this in Bear Grylls' autobiography (I'm bored and I have run out of things to read, okay), and it sort of applies here:
"To me, my Christian faith is all about being held, comforted, forgiven, strengthened and loved -- yet somehow that message gets lost on most of us, and we tend only to remember the religious nutters or the God of endless school assemblies."
Also, again, I don't believe in any god.