My stance on relationships is that it is best to wait at a young age to focus more on growth and education and any other interests that you wish to pursue. You're free, enjoy it. Live and love life. For you though, since you are 18 and not so young anymore. Relationships are a well and fundamental way to grow a beneficial respect for another person who also shares the same feelings as you do to them. Now, I cannot say it is love mainly because I myself have never experienced it and I believe there are multiple meanings other than just "love". But what I can say, is once you find whatever feeling or special connection you have between a partner it must be held onto. Taken to full extent, and both parties should be responsible for this. Otherwise, it may lead to a very harmful relationship if one is giving more than the other.

I personally myself haven't dated, and I am not ashamed of it. Given the choice, I still wouldn't because I find myself to be an unfit partner for anyone as of now. I'm too focused on more important things right now and I fear that would negatively impact any relationship. Once I have completed my studies I will then hope to find myself a lover. One that I could have not have had in Middle School or High School because I would've wanted to devote as much time, love and care to as possible and not been able to. So out of respect to those I hold feelings towards, I believe it's best to wait until you're willing to commit to that other person.  

Never had one, don't like any. Tbh, I don't like anyone (love, swoon for, etc.)
School > Relationship and I'm not attracted to anyone.  

Posted by DragonRider

(love, swoon for, etc.).

Swoon? Ok what does that mean?  

google.com
dictionary.com  

I believe it's foolish to get into "relationships" as a teenager. Wait until you're out of high school, at least.  

Posted by dude5870

umm... we should deff not go into that....

Mmmm, 6th grader sexy time....  

Posted by Cat612

I believe it's foolish to get into "relationships" as a teenager. Wait until you're out of high school, at least.

Nah, relationships are fundamental part of growing up as long as they know where to draw the lines.  

Posted by MrSimons

6th grader

Correction. 7th... although not a huge diff....  

Posted by Cat612

I believe it's foolish to get into "relationships" as a teenager. Wait until you're out of high school, at least.

Why? School encourages dating somewhat with school dances such as Prom and whatnot. I think dating in your teen years is a good way of understanding who you are, what you like and what you don't like.

I found myself going to my significant other for school/emotion support while dating and she came to me. When done right, dating while being in school can benifit you such as providing you a study partner and someone there to cheer you on and up.

I don't understand why people think there is an "age limit" to start dating. Back in the day you could get married at 15, lol. It's just doing what makes you happy as long as it doesn't negativly effect anyone else.  

Looking for a 14 year old fat chick to snuggle with PM ME IF INTERESTED , K thnx bai  

Posted by Ver'iApplez

Looking for a 14 year old fat chick to snuggle with PM ME IF INTERESTED , K thnx bai

does this mean I can snag coco? ;)  

Posted by Jester Lapse

Why? School encourages dating somewhat with school dances such as Prom and whatnot. I think dating in your teen years is a good way of understanding who you are, what you like and what you don't like.

I found myself going to my significant other for school/emotion support while dating and she came to me. When done right, dating while being in school can benifit you such as providing you a study partner and someone there to cheer you on and up.

I don't understand why people think there is an "age limit" to start dating. Back in the day you could get married at 15, lol. It's just doing what makes you happy as long as it doesn't negativly effect anyone else.

Maybe it works for some people, but I've overheard so many kids at my school talking about who's dating who, and breaking up with them the next week, then people crying in class over "boyfriends" that they've been with for a few days. It just seems like no one under the age of 16 or so has the emotional maturity to have a relationship that won't interfere with their education. Again, there are exceptions.  

Posted by Rexx

what was her type?

She's nerdy, not geeky. I don't like nerds

Posted by Cat612

Maybe it works for some people, but I've overheard so many kids at my school talking about who's dating who, and breaking up with them the next week, then people crying in class over "boyfriends" that they've been with for a few days. It just seems like no one under the age of 16 or so has the emotional maturity to have a relationship that won't interfere with their education. Again, there are exceptions.

Yea. I hate people who flirt a lot.  

Posted by Cat612

Maybe it works for some people, but I've overheard so many kids at my school talking about who's dating who, and breaking up with them the next week, then people crying in class over "boyfriends" that they've been with for a few days. It just seems like no one under the age of 16 or so has the emotional maturity to have a relationship that won't interfere with their education. Again, there are exceptions.

I see what you are saying.. as I can see this in the "popular" people clique. But many people ik in my grade are not actually like that.  

Posted by Cat612

Maybe it works for some people, but I've overheard so many kids at my school talking about who's dating who, and breaking up with them the next week, then people crying in class over "boyfriends" that they've been with for a few days. It just seems like no one under the age of 16 or so has the emotional maturity to have a relationship that won't interfere with their education. Again, there are exceptions.

It's just growing up. It's okay if you don't think there is any point in being in a relationship at a young age but don't act like its beneath you.


Also let's keep this chat appropriate. Talking about some fantasy raping spree is something you might want to keep to yourself.