Posted by Kavan

The heart is a lump of muscle that pumps blood. Yes, I can really forsee this lump of meat longing for a loving relationship.

You're being a bit too literal but technically it's your brain that is controlling your emotions and your heart.  

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results.  

This is an age where people are blinded between love and lust. He has to come to a conclusion to why he loves her and the fact that she left him 5 times should have been enough to make him leave her. You're friend sounds really desperate and since they were childhood friends, that should have remained.  

Posted by Kavan

The heart is a lump of muscle that pumps blood. Yes, I can really forsee this lump of meat longing for a loving relationship.

It’s a muscle? What are you going to tell me next that the heart works as a pump. You going to tell me the heart receives deoxygenated blood from the body and pumps it to the lungs to get oxygen. Dam lies

Can you foresee a lump of whatever the brain is made of longing for a loving relationship.

The answer to your question is simple you can’t control all of your emotions. Here is an example so you can understand what I’m saying. If someone real close to you died would you be able to control yourself to be happy.

I'm a teach you something you won’t learn at your fancy school. Sometimes in life you’re going to be wrong and it’s just better to be the bigger man and admit that you’re wrong instead of arguing for no reason.

Posted by Rexx

You're being a bit too literal but technically it's your brain that is controlling your emotions and your heart.

I don’t think he is that dumb to actually think I thought the heart controlled your emotions. He just didn’t have anything else to say. He was just looking for a way out.  

Posted by GOAT

It’s a muscle? What are you going to tell me next that the heart works as a pump. You going to tell me the heart receives deoxygenated blood from the body and pumps it to the lungs to get oxygen. Dam lies

Can you foresee a lump of whatever the brain is made of longing for a loving relationship.

The answer to your question is simple you can’t control all of your emotions. Here is an example so you can understand what I’m saying. If someone real close to you died would you be able to control yourself to be happy.

I'm a teach you something you won’t learn at your fancy school. Sometimes in life you’re going to be wrong and it’s just better to be the bigger man and admit that you’re wrong instead of arguing for no reason.



I don’t think he is that dumb to actually think I thought the heart controlled your emotions. He just didn’t have anything else to say. He was just looking for a way out.

Thanks for explaining it, but I really don't care about your opinion when you start insulting me. You definitely have to be pretty close to that age category for you to launch such a counter-argument, so your statement about being the bigger man is invalid; you should really look at yourself in the same perspective.

Plus, I'm not going to take life advice from children, no offense intended, but you can probably see my point whether you like it or not.  

inb4 "99 problems"  

the responses to this thread are kinda cute and kinda rude and kinda egotistical and kinda gay and kinda sweet and you're all kinda ****sticks

ot for op: you should know what to tell your friend judging by the responses here.  

I think true love starts at around ~18. At the younger age it's just an attraction to this person and not really "love".  

Posted by Godoco

Aight, so I have this friend. Hes been dating a girl on and off for the past 9 months. Hes 15. But every time, a month after they get back together, she says she likes someone else, they break up and get together like a month later. Its happened 4 times already. He really likes her, shes a childhood friend, he just doesn't know what to do, he always comes to me in tears. Its the 5th time no, he just came to me. Should he stay with this bish? I say no, but he really loves her. i have no idea what to tell him. Could someone experienced with girls help? Thanks

Well they should have stayed friends. Getting into a relationship with a childhood friend at age 15 will only ruin it because 15 won't usually be the age for a long term relationship and he'll only lose her. Also that girl's a bitch and the fact that he's trying to get back after so many failures shows how much he's a betafag but he should just let go, trust me.  

Leave your friend  

Posted by XENA*

I think true love starts at around ~18. At the younger age it's just an attraction to this person and not really "love".

Who are you to say when "true love" begins... That's not something age-bound, that's just something that ypu have to be lucky with..  

I think most people, especially young since they're new to these feelings, mistake a crush for love. A crush is when you think about that person, you're interested in them, they have qualities you admire. Love is when its much more intense; you understand the other person like you understand yourself, yet both people feel like they can learn from each other. They're willing to build something together, whether its themselves, or a family. Anyone at any age can experience this; its just a matter of luck, fate, coincidence, or however you choose to believe in the occurance of small wonders.  

Posted by Kavan

The heart is a lump of muscle that pumps blood. Yes, I can really forsee this lump of meat longing for a loving relationship.

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Oh, and this *cough* "friend" *cough* should dump her.

Posted by XENA*

I think true love starts at around ~18. At the younger age it's just an attraction to this person and not really "love".

Also, that's not necessarily true. I personally know a couple that started "dating" when they were 12. They are now both over 50 years old.  

Friend sounds like he loves what they had/have and doesnt want it to go away, rather then the girl herself.

He needs to man up, the fact she has cheated over and over shows she ain't changing.  

Godoco if this is actually you and it's most probable.
Having a long relationship at the age of 12 is mostly gonna fail, man.