Posted by xSupah*

Thats a damn lie. Stop posting BS. If no one cared for your problems, this world would be pure evil.




Honestly, I wish I could have beaten them in my schopl...But, dang you made sure nobody messed with you.

Well, I have a really short temper. I'm quiet until someone pisses me off. Then I'll raise hell. But from many suspensions when I was younger, I realized if I wait for them to touch me first, anything I do is considered self defense. And because of that, I never get into trouble. Some kid tried to grab my arm in the hallway when I warned him about trying to touch me many times. So I drop kicked his sorry ass into a locker in front of a locker and walked off like a boss. He didn't pull that **** again. But I'm unusually strong for my age :3 I'm as short as my temper. If you need a social squad then join vulpini(my squad) we have an alliance of hangout squads :p

If someone does something I don't like to someone I protect, I'll make them beg for mercy when I get a hold of them. Once some annoying guy pushed my friend in the hallway, and so I twisted his arm until is was about to break and he begged me to let him go.(while digging in my sharply cut nails into him) and then I didn't let him go until I felt he learned his lesson. He didn't do it again. If you can look intimidating, and carry around a makeshift weapon(I was known to stab some people with pens if after warning them) use a pen or something that isn't considered a weapon, and them viciously and mercilessly batter them with it or stab them with it. If they hit you first or touch your stuff  

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Posted by Shadowfox

If someone does something I don't like to someone I protect, I'll make them beg for mercy when I get a hold of them. Once some annoying guy pushed my friend in the hallway, and so I twisted his arm until is was about to break and he begged me to let him go.(while digging in my sharply cut nails into him) and then I didn't let him go until I felt he learned his lesson. He didn't do it again. If you can look intimidating, and carry around a makeshift weapon(I was known to stab some people with pens if after warning them) use a pen or something that isn't considered a weapon, and them viciously and mercilessly batter them with it or stab them with it. If they hit you first or touch your stuff

I hope you're not proud of yourself for that. That's excessive violence.  

Posted by Era News

You could of just annoyed him to death!

Quit thinking your street hardened your the one agitating people in this circumstance i highly doubt youve been bullied properly unless of course the obvious hint is that your one of them "strange kids"who think they are popular and that the people who want to traumatise you because i cant see you being popular just some pathetic wannabe

Posted by Platinum

I'm not sure if this is off topic, but I need advice on a topic and Yahoo Answers is not being very helpful.

For the past year my mum has been shouting and cursing at me when I don't do something right or she's just in a bad mood. When I was putting a T-Shirt in a charity bin, she shouted at me "Do you think ****ing I'm made of money!? You're so difficult!" and it felt like she was about to hit me. She recently has been doing this and making me feel terrible about myself, and whenever she does it I always end up in tears after she goes away. She is very intimidating and sometimes grabs onto me when she is shouting in my face. I've been trying to stand up to her but I never have the courage, and I haven't told anyone in real life, and mum isn't as bad to my sisters so they don't care.
What should I do?

Sorry some girls may find this abit innapropriate but

Spoiler

my mum tended to grab me by my hair when i was younger or acidentally scratch me when grabbing me but it was allways because she was on her period i know cause she used To claim she had a nose bleed to my little brother and got stressed out all the time but when i was old enough to learnt "the birds and the bees" i learnt to help her out and keep out her way when she was stressed so i havent been attacked by her in a couple of years not sugesting this is the case with your mother but try and look for the signs

 

Posted by Era News

The fact is: suck it up, no one cares about your problems as people are all for themselves.

You are seriously pissing me right off at the moment.

Anyways i have been bullied myself, it was no where near as bad as yours but it was different to the bullying you had. I had pressure on me in said school (wade deacon) as my dad was a pro rugby player and my older brother was mr popular at school. Pressure from teachers to achive high grades made me annoyed all the time but it was not helped by the fact that a 30 strong group would gang up on me and start teasing me with no way out. One time they even put me in bin before i had enough and moved schools where everything is fine now.  

Posted by Tyler

I hope you're not proud of yourself for that. That's excessive violence.

Not "proud" but it was effective in stopping them so I don't regret it. And the methods I use vary. Not all to one person lol this was just some experienced I have given as examples. Point is, if you touch me I don't tolerate that ****


But just saying things means nothing to me and I don't waste my time trying to attack them for it.

The words of those who I do not care for do not matter.~ some girl in an anime I'm watching  

Posted by Shadowfox

Well, I have a really short temper. I'm quiet until someone pisses me off. Then I'll raise hell. But from many suspensions when I was younger, I realized if I wait for them to touch me first, anything I do is considered self defense. And because of that, I never get into trouble. Some kid tried to grab my arm in the hallway when I warned him about trying to touch me many times. So I drop kicked his sorry ass into a locker in front of a locker and walked off like a boss. He didn't pull that **** again. But I'm unusually strong for my age :3 I'm as short as my temper. If you need a social squad then join vulpini(my squad) we have an alliance of hangout squads :p If someone does something I don't like to someone I protect, I'll make them beg for mercy when I get a hold of them. Once some annoying guy pushed my friend in the hallway, and so I twisted his arm until is was about to break and he begged me to let him go.(while digging in my sharply cut nails into him) and then I didn't let him go until I felt he learned his lesson. He didn't do it again. If you can look intimidating, and carry around a makeshift weapon(I was known to stab some people with pens if after warning them) use a pen or something that isn't considered a weapon, and them viciously and mercilessly batter them with it or stab them with it. If they hit you first or touch your stuff

Wow man you're crazy.  

Posted by Emera

Couldn't disagree more with this. Wtf.

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lol brb


also, people who suicide are not weak wtf is wrong with all of you? Selfish and short sighted? Yes. Weak? Most definitely not.  

I don't understand how someone can call someone else who has committed suicide weak. I mean, you can call them selfish in the sense that they left friends and loved ones behind all of a sudden only thinking about themselves, but bear in mind just how bad of a state of mind they must've been in in order to follow through with such a thing. How bad the bullying was to give them the balls to actually take their own life. Also, for those of you who call them out as weak or think you've had it just as bad as they did, I apologise to hear for what you've been through and hope it gets better, but you can't have been in the same state as they was.  

Posted by Jester Lapse

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lol brb


also, people who suicide are not weak wtf is wrong with all of you? Selfish and short sighted? Yes. Weak? Most definitely not.

E-emera must've b-been j-joking r-right?  

Posted by MementoJoker

I'm sorry to ask, but are your parents divorced? If yes, did they recently divorce? Has your mother been having a hard time in her workplace? Did someone close die recently? These are all factors that may result in this behaviour and I know from experience that sometimes (for longer periods of time) people take out their inner stress and feelings on other people and they don't mean it at that time, but when they recover from whatever is ailing they'll regret what they did.
I'm sure your mother is just having a hard time and is taking out her anger on you.
Was your mother always like this or do you remember her being a loving and caring person?

My parents are still married, and due to my father going back to uni my mother has to work full time (she used to work part time), and my grandfather is in the early stages of Alzheimer's. We are also going to Europe for a month in April.
As far as I can remember she was like this most of the time.  

Posted by The Doctor

calling Child Protective Services or another service can get you through.

do not call CPS unless you are dealing with **** you cant handle. Platinum's problem seems like something she should seriously sit her mom down and talk about. Her mom could just be going through some **** and be stressed, in which case talking to her could only help your situation. Seeing as she's complaining about you donating clothes I'm gonna guess your family isnt in a good position financially so that seems like it could totally be an issue.

Posted by Era News

The fact is: suck it up, no one cares about your problems as people are all for themselves.

You obviously dont go outside much if you think that. Or just have a really ****ty outlook on life.  

Posted by Jester Lapse

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lol brb


also, people who suicide are not weak wtf is wrong with all of you? Selfish and short sighted? Yes. Weak? Most definitely not.

damn!

Posted by Platinum

My parents are still married, and due to my father going back to uni my mother has to work full time (she used to work part time), and my grandfather is in the early stages of Alzheimer's. We are also going to Europe for a month in April.
As far as I can remember she was like this most of the time.

CPS will ruin your family.  

I was bullied in middle school. It was bad. They would always do that "your gay" **** because i had a gay, flared accent. It didn't sound that way to me so i didn't notice it, but it did sound like that in recordings and such. and it started to get really personal. I am completely straight, and I always have been. I just really didn't like how so many kids would get on in the joke of calling me it. I was actually a nice kid back then, its just their immaturity i guess. It did affect me socially, to an extent. One day, this group of exceptionally mean kids were bullying me in PE. They were following me around calling me gay and all that crap, and they had done it all the time. I had enough of their **** and i felt rather fed up, so i threw a basketball at the kid. I nailed him in the head and he fell down. He got up like he was going to try to fight me, but i was just walking up to him and i nailed him in the face. He tried laughing after a couple seconds so i did it again. He fell down and then i put all my weight and kicked down on his stomach with my foot. He was coughing and **** and then threw up. I was suspended, he got off with everything. I had friends still, I had some good ones. Especially this girl. She really helped me move through those years and, as a junior in HS we are still good friends.

When i say all this i mean 7th grade. I went to a private school in 8th, where things were fine. Boring, no bullying atleast. I was actually the "bad kid" in that grade. The only one who knew and had gotten his hands a little dirty with sex and alcohol and pot and such. They respected me in an odd way, i guess.

Anyways, going back into the public school system (9th grade freshie) I was way ahead in puberty. I shot up while i disappeared from the public schoolers in 8th grade, and in my return i was much taller, stronger, deeper voice, and i had like a beard. For real. It was rough shape back then, but it was still a beard lol. Either the kids didnt know I was the same person from 7th grade, or they were intimidated because I could have beat their ass in a fight. Ever since i started high school, things completely changed. I made friends, i have dated lots of girls, i enjoyed being ahead of everyone on the puberty thing. I feel like maybe it was a gift of relief from god or something (which is weird, because i dont believe in a specific god).
I haven't had specific issues since then. But some people still think i am pretty weird. I feel socially awkward and certain times and I cant explain it. But I think it is because the bullies made me truly look at people and know how heartless they can be, (im very passionate about making the world better so it bothers me a lot how selfish the human race is).

TLDR I understand the OP. Bullying can affect you socially long after it stops. I think on the misery it caused back then, and I am a tough person who doesn't take *** from anybody anymore. But i do like to get along with people, more than fight.

I am a kid who had been training for about a year now for the marine corps, i am a jr in high school, pretty well respected and well rounded. Talented, if i could say the least. And much stronger than most. You would think someone like this would laugh at bullying victims, but i truly understand how damaging it can be, especially while younger.  

^ Omg dude no one cares about your life story. It seems you became the bully anyway.